M A R R I A G E: Searching for My Life-Partner.

Here are a few quick details:
* Birth: 1973,
* Height: 5'11" (180 cm), * Weight: 75 Kg (165 lb)
* Religion: Hindu, Brahman,
* Education: BE(B-Tech)
* Diet: Vegetarian, ( Does Not Smoke & Drink)
* Parents: Expired.

Our life is a constant journey, from birth to death. The landscape changes, the people change, our needs change, but the train keeps moving. Life is similar to the train journey, but it is not the station itself. Our life is a journey moving towards perfection. Perfection is an never ending path of human evolution, its not an destination.

A journey is a Process. A Discovery. It's a process of self-discovery. A journey brings us face to face with ourselves. A journey shows us not only the world, but how we fit in it. The journey is life itself.

While in this train journey we meet many people aboard, and new faces as well. Some of them may never look at you. Where as some may look at you but ignore, some may smile at you, and few may speak to you, few may as well sit besides you, and very rare, a seldom may stay with you forever, entire life time.

Stronger relationships happen between like-minded people. When they appreciate and respect each others ideas and views with similar purpose of life, to serve the humanity. Relationships is all about happiness and satisfaction between individuals. It is all about respect and dignity for each other. When they feel comfortable sharing their deeper thoughts with each other, without any embarrassment and frustrations.

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Similarly life-partners, spouses, companions, true friends, are those who comeback to us again, and enjoy our company (relationship) to attain their happiness, towards achieving their humble purpose of satisfaction in life.

This relationship comes to us in many different forms. As true love knocks our door in different ways. Sometimes as a brother or a sister, as a mother or a father, as a friend or a companion.

Marriage requires two kinds of happiness, one is Philosophical and other is Erotics. Philosophical relationships are quite often possible, very few agape relations may be encountered, and very rare, seldom are spouse or erotics relations encountered. As the relation to erotics is at a deeper level, which consists of philosophical and agape together, leading to life-partner, for entire life. Without proper coordination of philosophical, agape, proper understanding and respect, a erotics would merely be a infatuation without any strong stable relationship. Thus a life-partner relationship constitutes of many different, various emotions leading to happiness in life.

Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.

She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.

She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.

She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA.

In this vast and diverse world, I am looking for an like-minded and, humble life-partner who is interested in creating her future, herself. Who can create her own financial security as well. As wisely said: "God helps those who help themselves".

Along with this, it is also important for her to be like-minded. Having belief in the principles, to achieve our noble and humble objective of life. One who is calm and gentle, along with wisdom and mental stability. Psychologically balanced in emotions.

I do not believe that money is everything in life, but one of the basic necessities of life. Thus it is very important for me to earn wealth with a good purpose, with respect and dignity. I definitely respect elders but it does not mean that I am afraid of them, or I would blindly walk my path of life, if wrongly guided by them. I would definitely say "no" when something is wrongful to me. As I have some principles very close to my heart, which I cannot ignore or neglect.

I give priority to my health, and again that's the reason for me to live in Shimla. I am a vegetarian, do not smoke, nor drink alcohol nor like tobacco. At my spare time would like peaceful meditation.

She should be well educated and ready to travel. May be, I would need to travel to other countries to attain financial stability.

I was in United States for four years (from 2005 till 2010) After returning back to India I have been living in Shimla. Right now I am working with Engineering College as Lecturer (Professor) teaching B-Tech Subjects. I have future plans to settle at Shimla, or any other similar colder regions. I want to invest or purchase property in any of the colder regions, in India. That is also one of the reasons for me to find my life-partner in these colder regions.

To say a few things about my family. I am the only son to my parents, born in 1973, to a Brahmin family. I have one younger sister who got married in the year 2000 and well settled at Mumbai with a kid. I lost my father in 2004 and, my mother prefers to stay at village in Karnataka along with her parents, brothers and sisters (at her ancestral place). She is very much happy living with them. The reason being, she is taken care of well at her native place. With sufficient facilities and amenities. As her brothers are well settled with financial stability. Everyone knows about her current situation and are pleased to help her. As she would not be happy staying with lesser facilities at this older age. It is her happiness to stay with her parents, brothers and sisters at her native place. More over she cannot speak any language other than Kannada (language spoken in Karnataka).

My parents are from Karnataka itself. But I do not inherit any property from my Father. Thus I have to create everything on my own. I have to achieve my own financial stability. Thus I am also looking for a partner who is like-minded.

I do not like or prefer staying in Hot Climates or humid hot regions. I do not like polluted metro suburb lifestyles. I am a person who would love to be with nature, which is greener and colder, similar to Shimla. I am not the kind of person who would sacrifice my mental and physical peace, happiness just to achieve wealth. I believe in saying that "Wealth is not everything but one of the basic necessities of life". I would prefer good climatic conditions before considering any wealth benefits. Instead of moving to metropolitan places in India like Gurgon, Delhi, Mumbai, Chennai, Hyderabad, Calcutta, etc. I would prefer migrating for a few years to colder Countries like Europe to achieve my financial stability. Thus I am also looking for like-minded life-partner who could not only agree but also contribute and walk on these footsteps of life. I also have certain principles in life, as I do not believe in anger, hatred and frustrations. I believe in calm, gentle and humble approaches to resolving issues in life. I believe in controlling our mind, our desires and emotions to achieve our humble objectives in life. I very strictly follow the above principles.

I believe, "Love is a sacred and an divine blessing to add strength, courage and wisdom to our noble purpose of life". I intend to walk my path of life with compassion and brotherhood.

Here are a few Quotes which are close to my heart, rather they are my guiding principals to lead a better life:
* Life is a mysterious puzzle which can be solved with hard work, good character and discipline.
* The arch of law and order is wide, but it needs to bend towards justice, liberty and freedom, if not it will be miss utilized.
* Destructive Lion king says, he wants all the power, but none of the responsibility, lets strive to be humble kings instead.
* True kings are worshiped and followed only because of their good deeds to serve the humanity. Along with great power comes great responsibility. Power is lost when misutilized.
* If WEALTH is lost then NOTHING is lost. If HEALTH is lost then SOMETHING is lost. If CHARACTER is lost then EVERYTHING is lost.
* QUANTITY is appreciated only when it has QUALITY.
* There is nothing wrong in creating WEALTH, but all that matters is HOW IT IS CREATED. Money is like MANURE, spread it and it does good, pile it up and it stinks. Money is not everything, but one of the basic necessities of life.
* Real friends are those who help us live a happy and satisfied life. Love and wisdom are two of the strongest powers on earth, which can heal the nations.
* When your hand starts paining, do not cut it, but cure it. Never say die, live and let live. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
* Good things are very difficult to create, where as they can be easily destroyed. Ego of superiority is the destruction of individuality.

My life is a open book, please find below various online links to my connections. I believe in saying that: "Transparency is the key to stronger and healthier relationships." Please feel free for any clarifications. Hope you have a wonderful time, with Peace, Love and Light.

My Photos & Snaps: 

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I personally think we must be intelligent before taking decisions and actions in real life. I believe life partner is a soul mate, with a physical relationship for a life time. I think human mind is wild and crazy, has no boundaries, it is not tamed, and it can thus think and dream with infinite limitations. Thus we should stick to principles in order to have a healthy and ...... Read more below.

http://sam131141510realization.blogspot.com/2006/09/relationships-in-life-partnerships-in.html

It has always been my priority to live a happy, healthy and hygienic life. It has always been my priority to live my life with respect and dignity. It is my future plan and vision to own a farm land in India. To live with a cleaner and greener nature. That was one of the reasons for me to chose shimla. As shimla is colder, thus greener, thus less of dust pollution. As shimla also contains higher educated population. There are also many locations too other than shimla, which are also a better options. But in order to live in here, I need financial stability. It is also necessary to live among trustworthy, like-minded individuals. Who can care, share and trust. Which is very difficult in a poor corrupt country like India. Thus I plan to earn my financial stability abroad, which is quite possible. It is my dream to have my own farm, to cultivate dairy farm, to have my green house, to have my own farm house. To manufacture and install food processing plants.  To create better infrastructures like education systems, roods, hospitals, old age homes, orphanages. To provide free healthcare policies, free education, free housing and social security plans. To create better transparent media, and free communication internet facility.  To generate greener energy. To live a healthy, and hygienic lifestyle.

To live a better life-style, it is quite important to live in a better society. Where in everything if affordable. Thus I vision to live in a richer country. The standard of living is highest, only when the hygienic lifestyle is affordable. The most important priority is to live in a dust free and greener environment. To live a satisfying life, to earn an respectable wealth. To empower villages, farmers, to live a satisfying and educated life-style.
To educate them to implement machines in farming. To educate them to live in brotherhood and compassion.
To live a addiction free life, to meditate and to live a life of self respect and equality within men and women.
To believe in peace rather than making war. To be constructive, rather than being destructive. To eliminate superstition, and to eliminate orthodox stories of various gods. To have faith and belief in the proof of science. Not to gamble, but to take calculated risk, with proven records. To empower every Indian with constructive patriotism. The question to ponder is? If there is anything called as destiny, then is it in India's destiny to pursue this dream as well. Does India deserve to be a developed nation. If not will my dreams take me elsewhere? Do we need to consider the entire planet as our home. Can we get respect and dignity in another region or country. Because it is worth less to live without respect and dignity. To earn wealth with a noble objective to serve humanity and mankind, constructively. To live in a corrupt free world, with dignity, respect, peace, and brotherhood. Sometimes, few people say, marriage is a hurdle. But I believe, marriage can also be a boon. Marriage, with the right person can be more encouraging and satisfying to accomplish happiness. Marriage, can add strength, courage and wisdom to ones life. Marriage can convert an good wise friend, into an trustworthy life-partner. Someone who would always be there for a life time, to offer and to share with divinity.